I have been told by a few people, well only a handful that I cannot dress and that my self esteem is low, confidence is shot to pieces and that I may even be ashamed of my body image. Well I'll be...is what I was thinking because not only is it absolutely not true but it is just ridiculous. I have never been ashamed of my body, never, ever, ever.
I've also been told that I need to dress more appropriate cause I am not a teenager anymore and that (my pride) collection of hats need to be thrown away, now that silly comment made me roll on the floor with laughter cause that will never happen, well at least not in this lifetime.
Here's a good one for you, maybe the reason I can't find work is because of my size or the way that I look and dress. My thought on that one was "hmmmmmmm interesting" also complete nonsense, but okay.
Also, what really baffles me is that so many people automatically think that just because you're fat, heavy, plus-size or whatever you want to call it you must be unhealthy and you automatically without hesitation need to call for help cause you health is in dire danger. What crap, and to be honest that's just me putting it politely.
I will never look back in life and say I have regrets, sure I will make some mistakes but regrets no, because those mistakes are all learning lessons for me. I will never say "Oh I wish that I could of worn this". No If I like it and they have it in my size believe me I will wear the hell out of it. Or, "I wish that I could wear that shade of red lipstick but my skin tone is too dark" complete bull, I am wearing it or finding a shade close to it. "I wish I could pull off that hairstyle". Nope, I can pull off any and everything... you know why? here's why...I am confident in who I AM, I AM confident in the skin I'm in. I Love ME before anybody else can and truth be told nobody know me better than a handful of people and I can count them on one hand.
You see I've always heard this saying and that is "God makes no mistakes", so why would he make a mistake on me. I stand tall with my head held high whenever I walk into a room and all eyes will be on me because I demand it and people can't help but notice me cause I don't fit in with the norm never have and never will. I love every roll and dimple on my body, luckily I have no stretch marks but if I did I would love them too...why? cause it is a part of who I am.
So to all who feel that you have to change your size, the way that you dress, the way you accessorize, your long funky nails, or anything that makes you happy in this world that can sometimes be so cruel, mean and judgmental, don't do it. Always remember God has made you in the image and likeness of him and He makes no mistakes.
Enjoy
xo
